--- title: Pursuing Purposeful Engagement description: Join Dementia Darling to uncover the impact of purposeful engagement in dementia caregiving. Learn practical strategies for forging genuine connections with residents and breaking through apathy. image: https://blog.doyoukare.com/hubfs/AprilShowersHeader.png --- [![KARE Logo_Orange-1](https://blog.doyoukare.com/hubfs/KARE%20Logo_Orange-1.png)](https://www.doyoukare.com/) - [Blog Homepage](https://blog.doyoukare.com/april-showers-may-flowers) - [Post a Shift](https://app.doyoukare.com/Account/Login) - [Find a Shift](https://kare.jobs/HEROApp-Website) [Get Started](https://co.doyoukare.com/get-started) Dementia # Pursuing Purposeful Engagement Join Dementia Darling to uncover the impact of purposeful engagement in dementia caregiving. Learn practical strategies for forging genuine connections with residents and breaking through apathy. [the KARE Team](https://blog.doyoukare.com/april-showers-may-flowers/author/the-kare-team) Apr 15, 2024 --- In this video, Dementia Darling - a dedicated dementia educator, supporter, and caregiver cheerleader - shares the profound impact of purposeful engagement in dementia caregiving. > *"When we take the time as caregivers to pursue moments of connection and purposeful engagement with our residents living with dementia, it strengthens that trust and bond you will have with \[your residents and\] will in turn make the allyship in caregiving easier.”* > > *-Dementia Darling I Carrie Aalberts* In this video, discover: - The vital role of purposeful engagement in dementia caregiving. - Practical strategies for forging genuine connections with residents. - Effective approaches for breaking through apathy. Carrie emphasizes that the cornerstone of caregiving lies in fostering trust and meaningful bonds with those under our care. “We all want to be seen, heard, and recognized, and that doesn’t change when we have dementia,” says Carrie. Connection looks different from resident to resident based on cognitive levels. Meeting residents where they are and giving them the necessary time to process and react is critical. Discussing items you know are relevant to the resident is a great starting point in establishing trust. When getting to know residents, “start being a detective” and “find things that spark joy in their \[lives\],” says Dementia Darling. How have you been able to break through apathy in seniors living with dementia? Share your story and drop a 🌦️ emoji in the comment section below. ### Meet the Expert ### Dementia Darling BS, MS, CDP, CMDCP ![Carrie pic 2](https://blog.doyoukare.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Carrie%20pic%202.jpg?width=231&height=250&name=Carrie%20pic%202.jpg) Carrie Aalberts, widely known as Dementia Darling, has embarked on a profound journey in dementia care, driven by her deeply personal experiences. It all started when her grandmother was diagnosed with dementia, and Carrie witnessed her father taking on the role of her family caregiver. This profound connection sparked Carrie’s dedication to improving the lives of those impacted by dementia. Equipped with a Master of Science degree specializing in Gerontology and over a decade of experience in intergenerational adult day centers, memory care, Agetech, and more, Carrie stands as a seasoned professional in her field. Dementia Darling isn't merely a title for Carrie; it embodies a sanctuary for caregivers—a safe space offering support, education, and a nurturing community. Carrie aspires to be the unwavering cheerleader in caregivers' lives, providing solace and encouragement whenever it's needed most. Join the Dementia Darling community across all major social platforms: @dementiadarling on [**Instagram**](https://www.instagram.com/dementiadarling/), **[Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/people/Dementia-Darling/100057130793160/)**, and **[TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@dementiadarling)**. Together, we can shape a brighter future for caregivers and those they serve. ### Perk of the Week ### [![Free Dementia Training: Positive Approach with Teepa Snow](https://no-cache.hubspot.com/cta/default/6151473/93349c0a-e587-4434-a7f0-0c75cb3fb83b.png)](https://cta-redirect.hubspot.com/cta/redirect/6151473/93349c0a-e587-4434-a7f0-0c75cb3fb83b) ### **Resources** 1. [Zinnia TV](http://www.zinniatv.com) is therapeutic TV for those with dementia. - If you are purchasing for a community, mention Dementia Darling for one free month of TV. - If you are a family caregiver, use code DARLING30 for 30% off your annual membership.  2. [Nana's Books](http://www.nanasbookseries.com) are nostalgic digital and print libraries for those living with cognitive challenges.  - Use code WELCOME50 for 50% off a one-year membership.  3. [Mirador Magazine](https://www.miradormagazine.com/) is an award-winning, dementia-friendly publication.  - Use code MIRADOR10 for 10% off your purchase of a 5-pack or complete bundle.  4. [Music with Alexis](http://www.musicwithalexis.com) is a therapist-created virtual video music library for older adults. - If you are purchasing for a community, use code WELCOME to get $10 off your first month. - If you are a family caregiver, use code FIVEDOLLARTRIAL to only pay $5 your first month. 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